Keeping intimacy alive
I was asked to do a video on getting back intimate when it has left the relationship. I have not been in that situation before. I speak from experience. So, here, I have done a video on keeping the intimacy alive…
Restoring (lost) Intimacy in a Marriage
Asking for a friend. How do you restore intimacy in a marriage where intimacy has left and where only one partner is interested in restoring the intimacy? I have at least two female friends in this situation. The husbands…
On not being a doormat.
If was a man, and I met Bunmi Ajai some 15 years ago, God knows, I would take her for granted and treat her badly if I was a man without a kind soul. Bunmi Ajai some 15, 20 years…
Tobichronicles
#Tobichronicles. Tobi get two hours of private lessons in Maths ( a weak subject of his) and Science, every Saturday from 10.30 to 12.30 ON Saturdays. Lawyerman went to pick Erii. Tobi wakes up around 9.30am and screamed ‘Mum!…
On Apostu Lagbaja
All of you saying there are conspiracy theories about awa manovgord, Apostu... are you saying that he is clean as a whistle and did not do jack and everything is a big lie? So, he just sat down jejeli, and only preached…
My star struck night
I 'deshied' myself yesterday night. My friend Yemi invited me to a Lagos state event to mark the international Women's day. As per I came to Naija to get government involvement in my work with women, I tagged along. I…
Las Gidi state of mind.
I am in Las Gidi! Yay! Lol. I have been all over the place and not had a chance to update my Jopaspeople. I am sorry about that. I arrived on Monday morning. It was a turbulent flight. Oh…
My father’s ridiculous ex
Random remembrance of my father’s ex girlfriend and her stupidity. My dad dated a medical doctor after my mum died. It did not end in marriage but she was very hopeful. I met her later and she would regale me…
On mothers in law.
I am easily impressed by people. Once you say something that sounds remotely smart, DAZIT! I am already in awe of you. And Lawyerman is constantly irritated by this trait of mine. But e no jus start for me. E…
Embarrassing teen – parent relationships
We ran out of bread this morning and Lawyerman wanted toast so, I decided that I would leave the house with Tobi when he was going to school. I would go to the cornershop while he went on to the…