I am in conflict. Between my default African mentality and my Christian and adopted Western mentality. This is the cause of my conflict. Every teacher that has taught Tobi (even from deferent schools) say the same thing about him. That…
On my first date with lawyerman, I wore skinny jeans, a small silk blouse and high heels. I was a size 14/16 and I knew I looked hot. Mesef, I was feeling myself. Lawyerman would later tell me that on…
I 'deshied' myself yesterday night. My friend Yemi invited me to a Lagos state event to mark the international Women's day. As per I came to Naija to get government involvement in my work with women, I tagged along. I…
I am in Las Gidi! Yay! Lol. I have been all over the place and not had a chance to update my Jopaspeople. I am sorry about that. I arrived on Monday morning. It was a turbulent flight. Oh…
I had an AHA! moment during the night about my paternal grandfather. I sat up in bed and could not sleep again. Such was the force of the realisation. The first five years of my life was spent in my…
Random remembrance of my father’s ex girlfriend and her stupidity. My dad dated a medical doctor after my mum died. It did not end in marriage but she was very hopeful. I met her later and she would regale me…
I am easily impressed by people. Once you say something that sounds remotely smart, DAZIT! I am already in awe of you. And Lawyerman is constantly irritated by this trait of mine. But e no jus start for me. E…
A Facebook friend is arguing with me on this. I tell him that there are girls who do NOT want commitment, only sex and fun. He does not believe me. My friends Lola, Mo, and I know of at least…
We ran out of bread this morning and Lawyerman wanted toast so, I decided that I would leave the house with Tobi when he was going to school. I would go to the cornershop while he went on to the…
Okay don’t judge me for this, but isn’t growing up all about having adventures, trying out new things after all that’s how we learn, experience is indeed the best teacher. This is a tale of deceptive cocktails and fancy hotel…